The more I practiced self-love, the more I attracted people who respected my boundaries and cared for my well-being. It’s as if the universe responds to the energy you put out: when you prioritize yourself, you draw in the right kind of relationships and situations that nourish you, rather than deplete you.
The Bottom Line
Buddha’s quote may seem selfish at first, but it’s a selfishness that leads to growth, balance, and a deeper ability to serve others. Self-love is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. Without it, we’re running on empty, and we can’t show up fully for anyone.